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Dear Velvet Tarot Column

Dear Velvet 

February 2005

Dear Velvet,

Is it possible for me to have love in my life again?  I've been alone for nearly 20 years now.
Thank you kindly,

Coralee

Dear Coralee,

You have been without a partner for a very long time, but it is possible to share with another again.  The Four of Nuggets tells you that you must first, however, let go of the past.  I get the impression you had a very special relationship in your life long ago.  You must be careful not to compare a new relationship with one you had in the past.  Now it is important that you release the past so that you may be open to the future and the possibilities that exist for you.

This card would encourge you to seek new friendships and associations with others.  There is someone out there for you to care about, and who will care about you as well.  There is a chance to share yourself with someone, but you must reach out and be willing to act on opportunity.

Jealousies and insecurity can come up with this Four energy, so be careful in how you handle new friendships and relationships.  Although you may meet up with some who would not be compatible with you before you find the right one . . . the image of this card supports the idea of sharing and bonding with another individual.  So yes, I do believe you can have love in your life again, Coralee . . . but you must first make sure that you are opening your heart to this as a potential reality.  Love must come unconditionally, taking the good with the bad -- as is the case for any relationship :-)

Blessings,

Velvet Angel